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Sexy Halloween Costumes For Gay Men

apple-halloweenI know sexy. Especially “gay sexy.” Want me to prove it?! Oh, you dirty birdy. Well, what I can do for you now is take care of just one special thing you desperately need. I’m here to give you two hummer idea for Halloween costumes to unleash that inner sex bomb you’re anxious to let out to come play on the day the dead are free to walk among the living. And as the song sings, Freaks Come Out At Night. Get that twisted list going and let’s get shopping! And don’t forget to take care of the candy.


Cher Hits Ontario Dressed To Kill 2014

Cher Closer to the TruthAfter a good amount of time from the finale of her “Living Proof: The Farewell Tour” which later was coined “Never Can Say Goodbye,” Cher releases brand new music on her 25th album with Closer To The Truth and hits the road with tons of stops across our great lands with her “Dressed To Kill Tour.” I just purchased our tickets for her July 5, 2014 show. Yes, it IS very far in advance but just to get four tickets together with American Express pre-sale I was forced to place us quite a bit behind the front row without going broke. I’ve seen Cher a good number of times and shall revel in the experience no matter where we sit because we may be standing the entire time. Sorry for those behind me. It’s a concert. Stand and watch Cher or sit and stare at my ass. Your pick.



Wade Neff just sent me brand new pictures of his new tattoo and his ever growing mustache-beard combo. A dear friend to IAM and a COLT Studios legend, Mr. Neff has made his mark on gay culture through the years by his multitude of appearances with the iconic COLT brand. He is the type of daddy-man who may age but only gets better with time. These pictures prove it. .

Wade really works those cargos and furry bare chest. Would love to take a ride on that. The truck looks very comfortable inside! <wink-wink> If you’re around Palm Springs this weekend you may see Wade Neff strutting around. He has a photo shoot happening in town and wanted me to stop by to check it out. Possibly be a fluffier. Who knows?! Whatever he needs for the sake of art.

Enjoy the photos of Mr. Wade Neff. Get lost on his sturdy crotch, musky fur, heavy boots and wherever else your mind wonders… No judgments here!

Check out my previous interview with Wade Neff and see what’s the latest happening in his busy life. The gay bears L-U-V my man Wade! Thanks, Sir! Love the sexy new ink!


Film legends come and go during our time but hairy and hung muscle stud Wade Neff worked for the COLT Studio Group for a good number of years and still brings in the fans through his scorching photos, sexy movies and hunky iconic pictures! With the help of search engines and a brilliant webMaster I am able to see where Internet traffic comes from, which keywords work and what people cruising my domain are looking to find. WADE NEFF – COLT MAN. There, I said it… Luckily I know Wade well and have gotten together with him to find out what is happening with Colt Studios’ iconic superstar. I knew it would be something wonderful I could give back to his fans and my readers. Generous and approachable, this is Wade in his own words. Read on…

Steven Michael – Wade, share your excitement and hopes for your official move to Palm Springs.

Wade Neff – “We’re not [officially] moving to Palm Springs, just visiting once a month for a week. I am semi-retired only. I have no plans when I get there other than go to gym and rest.”

That sounds like a real good plan! How does it feel to still have the recognition of being Wade Neff, COLT Icon? I have a good number of people come to my website in search of Wade Neff. I knew they’d love an updated Q/A with you.

“Being Wade Neff is sometimes tuff and other times fun. I like my privacy most but I don’t like to be rude either. Still being reconized as Wade is hard to believe for it was over ten years ago I started with COLT Studios.”

Fans want to know what it is about you that would surprise them if they knew this about Wade… My gay bear friends simply worship you! And in this ever-changing gay culture that’s a great thing!

“As far as telling my fans a secret! NO. I have to have some private time and secrets to myself. But if you really must know something, I like girls, too!”

HOT! Loving that. How are you dealing with the amazing aging process we are all trying to handle with grace?

“Aging sucks. I think a face lift is in order. Just have to save up the cash to do it. Ha-Ha! I go to the gym five days a week and have a trainer to keep me in line. But the face is the hard part that always shows age on everyone.”

Have you always felt comfortable in your strong daddy role? That’s how it’s perceived from our side.

“Having a strong daddy look is cool with me. I like it ! BUT I don’t have time or money for young 25-year-olds asking to be looked after or money that’s for sure.”

Biggest physical Turn-On of a man, meaning are you an “Ass Man” or do you like beautiful eyes, or…?

“I like a guy in his mid to late 40s, 6’5″ and very muscular with a big crotch. A big crotch turns me on.”

Yes, Mr. Neff. You’ve shamelessly mentioned that to me before. Biggest character Turn-Off of a man? For instance I really don’t appreciate men who can’t look at me in the eyes. Shows lack of confidence… Thoughts?

“Turn-Off … Men of any age that think they are god’s gift to other men. WTF?! Or guys that just want money or to be looked after.”

What do you want to be when you grow up?

“When I grow up! Well, I want to be a rich healthy man that is happy with my life.”

When you have time to put your feet up and relax, what’s happening? A strong drink or beer? Nice foot rub from yours truly? Describe your downtime…

“Downtime is in Hawaii on the beach talking to no one and after having a few Mai Tai’s with my partner.”

That sounds fabulous! What attracts you to Palm Springs enough to move here?

“I like Palm Springs because it’s close to Vancouver and affordable. Plus, the weather is great!”

And you’ve been with your partner for how long now? How do you make it work for so long? Will he be here with you?

“We have been together for eighteen years. It’s still good and will be for many more years. I will be training at World Gym in Palm Springs so I’ll see you there. Yes, I’ll be with my partner and we’ll maybe even hire a trainer!”

Thanks Wade! Hope to see you around the Tool Shed for a beer sometime. Always a pleasure, my friend. Can’t wait to see the new tattoo in person! Send us photos soon and stay in touch! Woofers! Your grateful fans and I thank you! xo


It’s a very humid Saturday here in our Palm Springs Oasis. I’m dodging the heat by staying inside. However, a trip to Palm Desert Aquatic Center is calling my name. Seeing the stunning Olympic male divers last night (they were phenomenal!) in their wet Speedos jumping with strong legs and bare feet off high platforms took me back to days of youth and the thrill I used get by jumping off the high dive. We would pack lunches of bologna and mustard on white bread with nacho cheese Doritos and Little Debbie Star Crunch before heading to the Nashville Swim Club with my cousins and friends. I loved those days…

And on the subject of gorgeous Speedo wearing barefooted shirtless men, the extensive scrapbook I kept pictures of Tom Selleck from his Magnum P.I. heyday is something I would KILL for. That and my collection of Charlie’s Angels trading cards. Ooh, that loss burned. I was (am still am) famous for keeping a clipping or two. Of course, I found Selleck very attractive even though I hadn’t figured out my own sexuality yet. Obviously I was gay but living in the Bible Belt gave cause for belief any thoughts like that were very, very wrong. Repression came and the scrapbook was tossed.

These were the days of the fabulous (and very early reality TV team competition) Battle of the Network Stars. With Tom Selleck being incredible to look at, the television cameras could never shy away from showing him running out of the ocean or juggling a narrow obstacle course. Rumors have randomly circulated about Tom Selleck being gay throughout the years but like I’ve asked, does it really matter? He’s a strong actor who has has a long line of success on television and through movies. His personal life is his own and I don’t know him to know otherwise. Anytime there’s an phenomenon like Selleck, a popular attractive leading man in Hollywood, this dialogue is often shared.

Tom Selleck has continued success in the entertainment industry and can be most recently seen in his ever-popular Jesse Stone series. And of course, as Monica’s love interest on Friends reruns that play on our DVR here at home. Enjoy the photos. Isn’t he gorgeous? The mustache has never changed, thankfully. It’s inspired countless others throughout time. Mine, in particularly. And his furry chest. Stop it. I’m being silly… Or am I?!

Grrrrrr….! Daddy Bear.



I was working out this morning while discussing with my webMaster Shawn if a certain someone was COLT Man Wade Neff strutting around World Gym in Palm Springs today. Wade has been in before during his stint at the Tool Shed for their anniversary and for holiday weekends. We just couldn’t tell if this sexy hairy beast of a man doing lap pulldowns was actually the man himself. The sweat, the mustache, it HAD to be him.

If you’re a fan of Mr. Neff from his varied COLT images  or appearances then you know how powerful and masculine this man is. When it comes to worshipping real men, Wade Neff should be at the top of your list. He always speaks with a smile when he’s in town. If you didn’t catch my interview with Wade Neff read it here. After closer inspection the man wasn’t Wade but someone equally as stunning. Gorgeous gay bears tend to run in packs and look their best, not to mention like each other. We nodded, smiled and continued working out.




Came across this fabulous and fun chart of all the best facial hair for today’s furry faces on the men who feel confident enough to wear it. Are you the Beard type? How about a Goatee or Van Dyke? I tend to balance between a cropped Beard with a bushy Mustache and a Fu Manchu with Mutton Chops. I love men in facial fur. Sexy, masculine, did I say sexy?! Pardon the dog noises but, “Woof! Woof!” Need some super shears to get that fur exactly right? Wahl 79300-400 Color Pro 20 Piece Hair Clippers work perfectly!


When shopping for that fabulous gay man in your life that has everything, one must sometimes go outside the Christmas box and seek ideas elsewhere. You’ve come to the right place! This gives a few more gift ideas for the men in your life this holiday season! With it being upon us so soon, ordering online seems to be the way more shoppers are going. Let’s get started!

The new  Tom of Finland book is available for pre-order and is a great idea for the gay man who enjoys the masculine visual of two sexy men together in their natural habitat of a leather bar or tied to a tree. The illustrations have seen their share of exposure over the years and every time a new issue of his work comes out it is a collector’s item! Great as a coffee table book for that right conversation starter among new friends!

OK, not for your guy?! Stuck on ideas that just won’t work?! Try smart Gift Cards from Amazon! Let people buy whatever they want and Amazon has EVERYTHING! From clothing to music and sports equipment, all of your shopping can be in one place. And there’ s NO fighting for that close parking space at the mall.

Still not the answer?! OK… Let’s get in on the finer things for the home and check out Mercer Cutlery Genesis 6-Piece Knife Set with Tempered-Glass Block. Suggest your man carefully donates or tosses those old knifes that won’t cut, don’t cut, ain’t gonna cut anything. He’ll thank you over dinner really soon. And the glass block that houses them looks fierce!

Does you man travel a lot?! Is reading something he considers relaxing or entertaining?! The new Kindle Fire delivers heat to anyone that holds one. Tons of electronic books, apps, games and more! All at his fingertips. It’s the only other thing that should be in his hands other than you! Trust!

Finally, if there’s something any man would love to have it’s a Kenneth Cole Reaction Leather Business Case. Gorgeous leather to strap over his broad shoulders and chest to carry his laptop and personals. It’s gorgeous! Check it out.

Mary Christmas to All… And to ALL happy shopping! X